Ladies, Do not Ignore Feelings Undecided

Liputan6.com, London: This is a warning to women who want to release her single status. The Eve should never ignore feelings of doubt that appeared before the wedding.
According to a research, people hesitate before marriage tend to divorce. The research was published in the Journal of Family Psychology, as quoted by page Dailymail, Friday (14/9).

This study is the first to test whether a doubt lead to a happy marriage and divorce. And psychologists report that doubt is often a warning sign there will be a problem if still choose marriage.

Research conducted by the University of California, Los Angeles, suggests that hesitated before marriage, especially for women, can predict the high divorce rate and reduced satisfaction in marriage the following year.
Justin Lavner, a doctoral candidate in psychology from UCLA and lead author of the study, said: "People think everyone has doubts before marriage and you do not have to worry about them".

"We find indeed hesitant common but harmless. Bride who hesitated before marriage they are two times more likely to half a divorced four years later without a doubt," he said.

According to him, some couples who initially hesitant, after four years of marriage are less satisfied with their marriage than couples who did not hesitate. "You know yourself, your partner and your relationship than others. If you feel nervous about it, look," he said.

In the study, psychologists studied 464 newlywed couples, 232 couples in Los Angeles recently had a wedding a few months. Then they follow it up with a pair surveyed every six months for four years.

At the time of the wedding, the average age of husbands was 27 years old and the average age is 25 years old wife.
The pair were asked "Are you sure or hesitant to get married? '. In their initial interviews, 47 percent of husbands and 38 percent of wives said yes.

Some women, 19 percent of those who reported hesitated before marriage a divorce four years later, compared with 8 percent of those who did not hesitate.

For husbands, 14 percent of which are in any doubt before marriage also divorced four years later, compared with 9 percent who do not feel any hesitation.

Doubt prove to be the deciding factor, regardless of what their satisfaction in touch when interviewed, whether their parents are divorced, whether the couple live together before marriage.

In 36 percent of couples, husbands and wives do not have any doubts about getting married. At the couple's six percent divorced within four years. When their husbands undecided, 10 percent experienced divorce.

When only hesitation wife, 18 percent of divorced couples. When both partners have a doubt, 20 percent of divorced couples.

According Lavner, these findings tell when she hesitated before their wedding, this should not go unpunished. "Never assume your doubts will disappear or love can defeat your fears. There is no evidence that the problems in the marriage and immediately went to work better . If anything, the problems tend to be more developed, "he explained.